Post It Notes

sometimes its easier for me to not blog about movies..im pretty sick of it actually. But i promise i will return to rating movies soon.

Robbie and I fight a lot, well may be not a lot, may be its a normal amount. I'm not entirely sure. Either way when we fight it always escalates to saying mean things just for fun. Not abusive we need help mean, just bringing up past arguments normal stuff mean. We always laugh about it later, but in the moment being called an idiot pretty much hurts..so we want to fight fair.

Now i didn't think this was going to make us fight fairer, (we have gotten a lot better since we've been married) but it has made us A LOT happier and more considerate of each other.

I decided that for the next month we were going to write one thing we liked about each other on a post it note and put it on the fridge.
Robbie thinks i have an obsession with post it notes, really im just forgetful so they come in handy.
Anyways we are about a week and a half in and our fridge is covered in hot pink compliments of every kind. WE LOVE IT.. I love looking for my new post it on the fridge and i love finding something special to write to him during the day, its awesome. Having Nahla definitely makes it hard to pay attention to each other so this really helps.

Its nice to have the daily reminder that i'm loved ALL over my fridge..i recommend it to everyone. I think we are going to do this forever.